By Ramon Johnson
Is your dating life slipping into a recession just like your checking account? Sometimes the forces around us push us down the slippery slide of dating slumps. You can reduce your dating debt with a little management. Here’s how:
Diversify. Until you can cash in on a big pay off, diversify your man search with frequent changes to your profile text. Experiment with different moods that reflect different parts of your personality. Try the fun text, the serious, and the intellectual to see which gets a better response.
Expand. Types are so 90s. What matters today is compatibility and deeper connections. Ditch your previous filters and expand your candidate pool. Give a guy you would normally dismiss a chance to woo you. You may be pleasantly surprised at how attractive he really is.
Switch Displays. Change your visual message to reflect your diversified profile text. All covered up? Show a little shoulder without the sleaze. Like the Speedo look? Try a blazer.
Practice. Solicit your BFF to help you practice talking or writing messages to guys. Your best bud or betty will tell you (hopefully with blunt honesty) if you are cheese ball or a hot pocket.
If you continue to do what you’ve always done, you’ll continue to get what you’ve always got. Switch up your techniques and help prevent a dating depression.
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